Pet Ashes Jewelry: The DIY Process

  • You will receive our DIY kit. Gently gather a small amount of ashes using the provided tools.

  • Find the discreet opening on your pendant. Gently unscrew or open it to reveal the inner chamber.

  • Using the funnel or tool, carefully place the ashes into the chamber. A small pinch is all you need.

  • Securely close the pendant, ensuring it is tightly sealed. This step keeps your memory safe.

  • Carry your beloved pet's memory close to your heart, every day.

When Love Needs a Physical Form: Finding Comfort with Your Pet's Ashes

Hello friend,

I understand the weight of the container you're holding - it feels much heavier than it looks, doesn't it? Ten years ago, I found myself in your exact position, holding the ashes of my dear cat, Mocha, while tears blurred my vision.

Do you remember the first time they ran toward you? That moment of unreserved trust and joy feels like just yesterday, yet somehow a lifetime ago.

what to do with pet ashes

Creating a Visible Home for Love

From my experience, choosing to keep pet ashes at home gives your grief a tangible resting place. Based on what our customers have shared, many find that having a dedicated space they can see daily brings gradual peace to their hearts.

One customer mentioned how she chose a ceramic urn with her cat's paw print and keeps it on her windowsill. "Now when I drink my morning coffee, I still talk to him. The way the sunlight touches the urn makes me feel like he's still winking at me."

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Keeping Memories Close to Your Heart

Sometimes, what we need most is portable comfort. A pet ashes necklace isn't just jewelry - it's a wearable connection.

Through working with grieving pet owners, I've noticed that those who choose a personalized pet necklace often want to maintain that constant companionship they once shared. A young woman shared: "Since having some of my cat's ashes placed in this necklace, I feel like she still accompanies me on all my travels. Last week when I went hiking, the sunlight caught the pendant, and it felt like she was smiling with me."

Does this sound like the kind of comfort you're seeking - being able to feel their presence during life's important moments?

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Discovering Your Personal Memorial Approach

When considering what to do with pet ashes, I believe there's no single right answer. Every relationship is unique, and every memorial should be too.

One customer created what I consider to be a particularly moving pet memorial idea: she divided her dog's ashes into three portions. One rests beneath their favorite park bench, one stays in a beautiful urn at home, and a small amount was placed in a necklace. "This way, whether I'm at home, out exploring, or visiting his favorite park, I can feel his presence."

In my view, such thoughtful arrangements honor the complexity of our bonds beautifully.

Letting Time Guide Your Decision

If you're feeling uncertain, that's completely understandable. From what I've witnessed, sometimes our hearts need time to discover the most fitting tribute.

You might find that:

  • An elegant urn creates a meaningful memorial space

  • A personalized necklace provides daily comfort

  • A memorial tree allows life to continue in new form

  • Or you may create something entirely unique

The most important thing isn't which option you choose, but whether it brings you genuine comfort.

If you're looking for more inspiration, I'd suggest exploring resources like the Arbor Day Foundation's tree planting guide for living memorials, or beautiful glass memorials from artists like Spirit Pieces.

Dear friend, during this tender time, please trust your instincts. You know better than anyone what would best honor the unique love you shared.

Warmly,
Your friends at Lovenary

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