Pet Ashes Jewelry: The DIY Process

  • You will receive our DIY kit. Gently gather a small amount of ashes using the provided tools.

  • Find the discreet opening on your pendant. Gently unscrew or open it to reveal the inner chamber.

  • Using the funnel or tool, carefully place the ashes into the chamber. A small pinch is all you need.

  • Securely close the pendant, ensuring it is tightly sealed. This step keeps your memory safe.

  • Carry your beloved pet's memory close to your heart, every day.

5 Ways to Keep Your Pet's Memory Alive | Finding Comfort When You Need It Most

Hey there,

I know exactly how you're feeling. When I lost my orange tabby, Miao Miao, the silence in my apartment was deafening. Her food bowl stayed right where it always was, her favorite toys were still scattered around, but that little being who used to come running when I opened the door... she was gone.

If you're reading this with tears in your eyes, clutching your pet's photo, please know - I've been there. We've all been there. This isn't about dwelling on the past. It's about finding a way to keep that incredible love alive. Today, I want to share five beautiful ways that have helped me and countless others navigate this difficult journey.

5 Ways to Keep Your Pet's Memory Alive | Finding Comfort When You Need It Most

1. Create a Special Spot at Home - A Visible Reminder of Love

Think of this as keeping a light on for someone who's always in your heart.

One of our clients, Linda, placed her dog's ashes in a beautiful urn on her windowsill. She arranged his favorite photo beside it and lights a candle there every morning. "The morning sun touches the urn first thing," she told me, "and it feels like he's still here, wagging his tail at the start of each new day."

But let's be real - this might not work for everyone. If you move frequently or have limited space, a permanent memorial spot might not be practical. And sometimes, especially in the early days, seeing that spot can make the hurt feel fresh again.

So ask yourself:

  • Do you need a physical place where you can feel connected to your pet?

  • Does your living situation support creating such a space?

If this calls to you, our handcrafted ceramic urns might be what you're looking for.

Create a Special Spot at Home - A Visible Reminder of Love

2. Wear a Memorial Necklace - Carry Love Close to Your Heart

It's like carrying your most precious treasure with you - just knowing it's there brings comfort.

Mr. Li had his border collie's ashes placed in a necklace. "We climbed mountains together," he shared. "Now when I reach the summit, I hold the pendant and feel like we're still conquering heights together."

I won't sugarcoat it - the idea of dividing ashes can be tough for some people. And a necklace is personal, so it's not something the whole family can share equally. It also requires careful wear.

So I wonder:

  • Do you want to feel your pet's presence throughout your day?

  • How do you feel about the process of placing ashes in jewelry?

Our custom pet ashes necklaces are designed with exactly these questions in mind.

3. Create a Memory Book - Weave Your Story Together

Think of this as mapping your most precious journey together, preserving every beautiful moment.

Aaron, a software engineer, created a digital photo book documenting his three years with his hamster. "Going through our photos brought back so many forgotten details," he said. "The sadness gradually transformed into gratitude."

Fair warning - this process might bring up strong emotions, especially if the loss is recent. And not everyone feels comfortable with writing.

So consider:

  • Are you ready to revisit those memories right now?

  • Would you prefer to do this alone, or with family members?

We'd love to have you share your story in our Healing Community when you're ready.

4. Spread Kindness in Their Name - Let Love Ripple Outward

Imagine lighting a candle that warms other lives through your pet's legacy.

After losing her golden retriever, Auntie Wang started donating to local animal shelters in his name. "Knowing other dogs are being helped because of him," she told me, "that's what finally brought peace to my heart."

The hard part? This might not satisfy that need to keep something physical. And you'll want to find reputable organizations to support.

So think about:

  • Does the idea of helping other animals in your pet's name comfort you?

  • What form of giving would feel most meaningful to you?

5. Plant a Living Memorial - Watch Love Grow

It's like planting a seed of love and watching it blossom year after year.

Grandpa Liu planted a gardenia bush where he buried his mynah bird's ashes. "When it blooms each year," he says, "the fragrance fills my garden, and it's like he's still singing to me."

The reality check: You need the right space and some gardening knowledge. And growth takes time - you won't see results overnight.

So ask yourself:

  • Do you have a good place for planting?

  • Are you patient enough to wait for this beautiful transformation?

Finding Your Path Forward

Here's the truth - there's no one-size-fits-all solution. What worked for Linda might not work for you, and that's perfectly okay.

Maybe you'll combine approaches - keep most ashes in a special urn, place some in a necklace, and do some good in your pet's name.

There's no perfect choice - only what feels right for your heart. In our Healing Community, we've seen countless people walk this path and eventually find what works for them.

What speaks to you most right now? Or have you found another special way to honor your pet? We're all ears in the comments or over in our community.

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